By Cherie, Surrogate Intake Manager at Canadian Surrogacy Solutions Consulting and two-time gestational surrogate
One of my favourite parts of my job is talking to women who are curious about surrogacy. Some come with a whole list of questions, and some start with, “I don’t even know what to ask yet.” Both are welcome.
Maybe you’ve been thinking about becoming a surrogate for years. Maybe you saw someone share her story and wondered what it would look like for you. Either way, here’s what you can expect when you reach out to us.
How we get in touch
If you’re still exploring, you can request a call through our website and tell us the best way to reach you. Our team will get in touch to find a time to talk. If you’re ready to apply, you can also fill out a surrogate application through the same page.
What I’ll ask on our first call
I like to start with what made you curious about surrogacy and where you are in thinking it through. From there, I may ask about your past pregnancies and deliveries, any questions you have about your health history, and what you already know about the process.
We’ll also talk about how surrogacy might fit into your life. Who could help with the kids if you needed to travel for a clinic appointment? Are there busy times at work or at home that could affect when you’d want to start? These are the kinds of things you can begin to think about, even if you’re still figuring out the answers.
When can I ask my own questions?
Anytime. If you have one big question on your mind, we can start there. You’re also welcome to jump in as we talk, or we can go through your list together toward the end of the call.
You might be wondering how matching works, how much travel could be involved, or what kind of support you’d have during the journey. You might want to ask what it’s like to tell your kids you’re considering carrying a baby for another family. I’m happy to share what I’ve learned through my own two journeys when it helps you picture what yours might look like.
What happens after the call?
If you want to keep going, we’ll talk through your next step. That might mean completing your application if you haven’t already or learning more about how we get to know you and what you’d want in a match.
You’re also welcome to take time to think, talk it over with your family, or reach back out when another question comes up. The first call is a chance to learn enough to decide what feels right for you.
If you’ve been wondering what surrogacy could look like in your life, I’d love to hear from you. Visit our Become a Surrogate page and choose Set up a Call.